You should be ashamed of yourself:

Youíre too short. Youíre too fat. You look older than you are. You interrupt. You donít listen. Were you listening? I told you not to. Youíre too loud, itís obnoxious. Speak up, I canít hear you. You sound like a little mouse to match your mousy hair.

Itís too dark. Itís too light. Itís off center, canít you fix it? What is that supposed to be?

Itís out of focus.

You should be shameless:

Focus is a matter of intention.